Saturday, March 20, 2010

{Fame, Fortune, Faithful}




Sandra Bullock is one of me and Chelise's Wish upon a Movie Star BFF's.
Her husband, Jesse James, WAS one of my Wish upon a Movie Star bad boy crushes.

I love you Sandra.
Shame on you Jesse!!!!!!
You're a dumb ass!!!!!

The morning radio trio that I listen to, were talking about the reasons men like Jesse and Tiger would cheat when they have beautiful, successful wives at home.  One of the D.J's threw out a Chris Rock quote:

"A man is only as faithful as his options."

The D.J. admitted that his wife has nothing to be worried about because he hasn't been "hit on" in ten years......but if there were women showing interest, she would have something to be worrying about.

Just let that statement sink in.

Kind of makes you go...
hmmmmmmmmmmm


DISCLAIMER:
I am not a man hater, nor do I want to rally against them for any reason.  I'm just speaking what I believe is the human flaws we all can choose act on.


Randy and I have been talking about the truth of this statement.
He doesn't believe that every man would cheat if something sexy wonderful was placed in front of him......
BUT
He did admit, that if a woman isn't taking care of her man in the way he needs (sex, attention, respect), then of course they will stray if a bombshell is fluttering her goods in his eyeballs.  It's just the make-up of men.

I agree that at times, good men get mistreated and taken for granted.  They should not be with held sex.  It is hurtful, mean and manipulative.  But, I speculate, that all it takes is a man thinking he isn't getting what he needs to justify his unfaithful actions.  And let's not forget EGO.
Men's feelers are so fragile, (worse than women at times!) and all it takes is one hussy to make them feel important and "all that" to proceed to the next stage of infidelity.

Women are not immune to the same scenario's, but I think we are a more "one person for life" gender.

So......do you believe that a person is only as faithful as their options?

6 comments:

paula said...

hmm. I have to think about this for a bit. I'll get back with ya......

Anonymous said...

I think it has alot to do with power. These guys have money,egos,and the power to do whatever they want. How could Jesse do tht to America's sweetheart!!

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Tracy said...

I'm so disappointed in the one Biker -Trash Hero I actually had faith in. What was he thinking with that inked-up, internet-porn-trash-neo-nazi Biatch?? Some men just don't know what to do with a Good Thing!!
Good for you, Sandra, for walking out on him IMMEDIATELY upon finding out the truth! No second chances for that L O S E R !!

lisa_sims said...

I think this has everything to do with ego! Movie stars or not, men are driven by ego and the brain in their pants. (I am not a man hater either!) They should stop relying on others to make them happy and look inside themselves for a change...or do they have that capability? Hmmmmm?

Chelise said...

I have to admit that watching them over these past few years had given me a little hope. (Non-believer in marriage, although I am married) AND THEN.....Right back where I started!

MEN AND WOMEN ARE NOT MEANT TO BE MONOGAMOUS! The "idea" of marriage is great......until.......the next option.

paula said...

still thinking....